Any one out there who has had barriatric surgery?

hi im a guy who had barriatric surgery or weight loss surgery i was 698 on my op day im now today 190s id love to find any gals who had the operation who can relate to what i went through to become freinds with and even marrige is there any alumni groups for people who had it done i want to meet a gal who had it done to be able to laugh cry talk to and become my best freind a dating site for people who had the proceedure but i also adore s still even though ive lost my weight want to marry a gal who had it done race looks are unimportant im a mushy mushy hopeless romantic who loves to put a lady first and foremost roses long stem tlc affection attention great conversation is what i seek even if its long distance via computer mature sincere serious no game players or heart breakers as i said i love s and gals who had barriatric surgery if shes out there i seek my soulmate a lady i can put on a pedestal and worship i pray she could be out there i seek a deep nourishing love